July 2020: Fellowship
CONTENTS
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Opportunities for Newsletter Submission
Play the Game
by Samantha V
Sung to the music of "Ugly Boy" by Die Antwoord
I keep sayin I ain't playin
But the cards in front of me are callin my name and
Every time I think I'm gonna get out
I get pulled back in without a doubt
Drug in
Done in
This game I play but I never win
Never seem to find an end
I lie to myself and pretend
Things are fine in my mind
Finger constantly stuck on rewind
But life don't work that way
There's no pause or skip, only play
Eyes blind, hands tied
Held captive by a demon inside
No matter how hard I try
It takes to much just to survive
No escape, is it fate?
Livin my life repeating mistakes
How far does the bottom go?
Maybe I'll never know.
Play the game
Don't even know my name
Think I'm going insane
Will life ever be the same?
Then a light, it ignites
Gives me the strength to keep up the fight
Get up and try again
I reach for the hands of my friends
I'm not sure what's in store
But together we're stronger than ever before
I see the hope in you
And I'm inspired to have hope too
I'll follow this new road
I'll trust that where you've gone I can go
I'll face another day
Forge a path in a new way
When I fall, I won't lose it all
I can't run yet before I crawl
Take things one day at a time
Seek and I shall find
Play the game
I'm figuring out my name
There IS a way to stay sane
And life won't be the same
My struggle
Your struggle
We find ourselves in trouble
But there's a better way
Face this brand new day
Hand in hand until we understand
Play the game
Now I know my name
Thank God I'm not insane
Now my life has changed
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Announcements
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Thank You from Intergroup
The Chicago-Milwaukee Intergroup would like to express gratitude to the following groups for their contributions, as reported at the July meeting:​​​​
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Hedwig SLAA Group (5/22): $133.60
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Friday & Sunday Beverly Serenity SLAA Group: $90.00
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Individual Donations (5/18/20-6/20/20): $36.00
These contributions help with Intergroup operations so we can continue to carry the message. Thank you!
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New Meditation Meeting Starting June 30th!
Wednesdays
8:30pm-9:00pm
Call 701-802-5209; Access Code 4963445#
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This meeting will be an enhancement to the meetings you already attend by offering a selection from the SLAA text, 5 minutes of collective meditation on the reading, and brief shares following that.If you are interested in chairing a meeting, please contact Mailroom@SLAAchicago.org (it's easy--there is a script to follow!) Start and end your day with a short and sweet new meeting!
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Intergroup Positions Available
In March, the Greater Chicago/Milwaukee SLAA Intergroup held elections for Intergroup officer positions. There are still service positions available. If you would like to participate, we encourage you to join us on August 15, 2020 at 8 a.m. We are meeting remotely, please contact 312-725-9918 for details.
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Opportunities for Newsletter Submission
As members of SLAA, you have the opportunity to contribute to our local Intergroup newsletters, as well as the fellowship-wide newsletter. Read on for more information.
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Contribute to GREAT FACT
GREAT FACT—what you are reading at this very minute—is the newsletter for the Greater Chicago–Milwaukee Intergroup.
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We're prepping for publication for the next few months and looking for the following submissions:
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Essays
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Fiction
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Poetry
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Artwork
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Photography
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Upcoming deadlines:​​​
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August (August 10): "Anorexia"- What does your recovery look like as it pertains to anorexia? How have you recovered from anorexia?
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September (September 7th): “Self-Care” What are your top self care ideas? Is self care important to your recovery and if so, why?
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October (October 7th): “Willingness” What ways do you use willingness in your program? How do you become willing?
To submit, please send an email to mailroom@slaachicago.org with the subject line "Newsletter Submission." Please feel free to send us something outside of the themes above, and we’ll slot it in when appropriate. Thanks!
Upcoming Events​
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SLAA Summer Retreat
August 28-30th
Register @ http://www.slaachicago.org/events
The SLAA Retreat still has spots open, register today!
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SLAA Fellowship Game Night
Saturday August 8 5-7PM CST
Where? Zoom (details will be sent out prior to event)
RSVP @ fellowshipgamenight@gmail.com
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Greater Chicago/Milwaukee SLAA Intergroup
Meeting Minutes
Saturday, June 20, 2020
Attendance
Vince: Chair RFG
Anthony: Treasurer KCBG, ABM Delegate
Chris S: Fall Gathering Co-Chair, Inreach Assist. Chair RFG
Verne: Inreach/IG Rep Rise And Shine
Francis: Co-Editor Newsletter Rise And Shine
Christie K: Website Facilitator RFG
Barney: IG Rep Evanstan Thursday, St. Hedwig
Caitlyn K: Co-Editor Newsletter RFG
Kristin S: IG Rep Milwaukee Sat. am
Dave SC: IG Rep Beverly Fri/Sun
Chase: Co-Fid Chair/IG Rep RFG
Hannah C: IG Rep RFG
Hannah K: RFG
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After a moment of quiet, readings of the Prayer for a Trusted Servant, our Intergroup Statement of Purpose and the Twelve Traditions we moved on to...
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Chairperson Report
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Motion to approve May IG Meeting minutes, with changes to be made: Y - 9, N - 0, A -1
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Plan stated by the Chair to meet with IG officers to discuss our Bylaws and complete our Service Role descriptions.
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Special Election: Chris S, with a history of work at the Intergroup level over the past 3-4 years, having co-chaired last year’s Fall Gathering, to lend a hand on all In-reach activities was nominated as Inreach Co-chair. Motion passed unanimously.
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Concerns about Smeetingchciago.com website were discussed again. Requests asking Smeetingschicago.com website manager to refer those interested in SLAA to our IG, as well as inform who manages this website, have not been responded to. After discussion, the Chair decided to remove this website from the IG website. Later in the week, the Chair consulted with IG officers and representatives to come to a consensus on this decision. The group conscience was in favor of removing smeetingschicago.com from IG website and the link was removed.
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Website Facilitation Report
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The website has been kept up to date on meeting changes.
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Can we put the Zoom link to Intergroup Meetings up on the website? It will be added to New Business to be addressed.
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Fiduciary Report
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Formal Fiduciary Report may be found on our google drive, in the fiduciary folder.
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Chase & Anthony are working on creating a better, easier to read and more comprehensive report on Googledocs Sheets.
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Progress is being made on complete funding of all activities.
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Now that the Annual Business Meeting (ABM) has been moved to an online status, attendance will be very inexpensive ($185). It’s coming in August. There are openings for delegates from our local SLAA members to attend; but no voting will occur at this year’s ABM, except for the Board of Trustees.
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The issue of loosening quarantine restrictions was raised. Some SLAA meetings are moving now to hybrid on-line/in-person status. Fiduciary Chair suggested creating cork-board/posterboard signage, notifying meeting attendees of the health limits to participation (e.g., do you have a fever?) that are generally accepted as protective measures at grocery stores and doctors offices. A discussion was held about the benefits of this suggestion. A motion was proposed to devote $100 to making three signs for meetings that are interested. Motion was approved unanimously. ALAA Meetings may request signage through the Intergroup website, Mailroom email (mailroom@slaachicago.org).
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Inreach Report
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Newsletter: Articles for the next Newsletter have been submitted and are being compiled with IG Meeting minutes and financial report. A draft of the Newsletter will be out this week for approval.
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Summer Retreat update: A budget has been set, with a lower number of attendees expected due to concerns about Covid infection. Money has been allotted for infection protection gear. Liability insurance has been added to the budget. $5625 has been budgeted for the retreat.
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Has the cost to attend the retreat changed? There’ll be only single room occupancies, so the fee would be $205 per person. Vote to approve the budget - unanimously approved.
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Messaging about the Retreat: A copy of the Save-the-date message was shared; it emphasizes how we’ll take steps to safeguard against infection transmission. Can more specifics be included about health concern based safety-steps? This is only a save-the-date notice: more details will be written up and shared.
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Fall Gathering. In-reach Co-chair, directing the Fall Gathering is beginning planning; northside Al-Anano Club has been contacted. Working towards a hybrid, in-person/on-line gathering is playing a part in how we’re considering handling events.
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Date to be set for around October 24. Looking for a co-chair: Caitlyn volunteered to co-direct and was approved.
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Prayer/Meditation Meetings: 8:30pm phone-in meetings will begin on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday the week of June 29th.
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Outreach Report: no time for report.
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New Business: no time for report.
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Meeting Representative Announcements
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The 8:30pm Prayer/Meditation phone-in meetings will have a save-the-date memo written up and sent out; mention it in your meetings.
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Encourage IG donations via Venmo (@Augustine-fellowship)
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Encourage members looking to do service to attend IG meeting.
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Send out submissions to Newsletter.
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Greater Chicago/Milwaukee SLAA Intergroup
Treasury Report
06/15/20-07/16/20
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Starting Balance June 15, 2020 $6,345.30
Total Intergroup Group/Individual Donations +$259.60
Total Expenses $16.34
Acct. Current Balance (7/16/20) Act. $6,588.56
*The full treasury report is available through your Group Intergroup Representative or by request to: mailroom@slaachicago.org.
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SLAA Online Text-Only Chat
Those who need an additional resource in their SLAA recovery are invited to SLAA Online text-only chat recovery fellowship. Find more information by visiting the SLAA website, slaaonline.org, or by emailing slaaonline@yahoo.com.
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Contribute to West Chicago Intergroup Newsletter
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Our friends in the West Chicago Intergroup invite members to contribute to their newsletter to share their experience, strength, and hope. According to Mark K., "Writing an article for our newsletter is one way you can serve yourself and others." For more information, email pcomind@gmail.com or visit the West Chicago Intergroup website.
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Contribute to the Fellowship-Wide Newsletter: Journal
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​The Journal is SLAA’s fellowship-wide newsletter, which goes out to fellows around the world.
The Journal seeks submissions for the “Question of the Day” for upcoming issues (deadline): ​
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September/October: "Tools for No Contact" Have you ever gotten through the pain of a no contact rule to come to some new revelation about yourself, clarity, peace, or mindfulness? Please share any tools that make no contact easier. (July 15)
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November/December: "Reconciliation" Please share your experience, strength, and hope around reconciliation. How do you deal with expectations and “lay an entirely new foundation for cooperation, trust and inti- macy?” (Sept. 15)
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January/February: "Anonymity" Do you feel different about anonymity than when you first got here? Please share your experience, strength, and hope around breaking your anonymity to help another or any experiences around anonymity that have helped you grow in recovery. (Nov. 15)
Submit responses or other contributions to www.slaafws.org/journalsubmit.
To subscribe to the Journal or read the current issue, please click here.
Thank you for reading!
Coming in August: "Anorexia"
We invite you to share your experience, strength, and hope.
To submit, please send an email to mailroom@slaachicago.org with the subject line "Newsletter Submission"
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