April 2024 Intergroup News
Searching and Fearless
The fourth step was frequently described to me as a “monster” or “the step I got stuck on” or something else negative. My experience with it was so overwhelmingly positive that I wanted to share.
As I dove into my resentments, listing them out then inventorying them, I realized that I was angry about a lot of things, a lot more than I expected. I always considered myself a patient, relaxed person. But as I looked at my growing grudge list, I couldn’t deny the facts in front of me. The anger and frustration were bubbling beneath the surface for years. At times it boiled over in the form of a fight or a road rage episode or cussing out a family member. Most of the time, I was acting out too much to feel it. The anger was there and facing the reality of it was a relief.
I felt uncomfortably aware of my imperfections and felt vulnerable writing these things down. And at the same time, there was a surge of growing self esteem. “I don’t have to lie and hide. I don’t have to be ashamed. I have issues with anger. That’s okay - I can work on it.”
As I shifted over to the fear inventory and the sex inventory, the uncomfortable, vulnerable feelings continued. Especially in the sex inventory. There were many women and acting out situations I was tempted to leave off of that list out of fear of being judged. Again and again in this process I was met with “me too” as I inventoried and discussed these things with my sponsor.
The final piece of the fourth step for me was a “take it to the grave list” where I was told to write down the things that I did that at one point I swore I would never tell anyone. With each one I wrote down, the walls of shame that kept me from looking the world in the eye crumbed down a bit more. The shame and pride that fuels my disease was diminished. I began to sense more and more love and true acceptance from my sponsor, my higher power, and myself. I’m so grateful for that.
-Anonymous
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The Greater Chicago/Milwaukee SLAA Intergroup
Meeting has a New Location!!!
New Location: 3326 N. Ashland, Chicago IL 60657
There is parking at the Target on the Northwest corner of School and Ashland. You must park in an upper level of the garage and not on the street-level parking in order to avoid the risk of a ticket.
Next meeting: Saturday, May 18th, 2024 8:00am – 9:15 am (Recurring every 3rd Saturday of each month.) In Person and Zoom (Hybrid):
Opportunity for Service:
A Chicagoland area treatment center is looking for SLAA speakers to share their experience, strength and hope in SLAA recovery at their Northbrook facility. This treatment center also has opportunities for SLAA members to speak virtually. Because it’s a professional facility, speakers will be interviewed by the SLAA Outreach Chair about their sobriety and experience in SLAA. To inquire, contact mailroom@slaachicago.org
Greater Chicago/Milwaukee SLAA Intergroup Representation
The Greater Chicago/Milwaukee SLAA Intergroup is grateful to have representatives from the following meetings :
12x12 Living in the Solution
Friday/ Sunday Beverly
Priceless Gift of Sobriety Meeting
Ravenswood Fellowship Group
Tuesday Keep Coming Back Group
Thursday Keep Coming Group
Friday Night “Into Action”
Saturday Morning Oak Park
The Intergroup is still seeking representatives from the following meetings:
Solution in the Suburbs
Monday Night Naperville
Tuesday Morning Suburban West
SLAA From Anorexia to Healthy Relationships
Wednesday Morning Suburban West
Milwaukee Wednesday Evening Meeting
Reba Place Church
Thursday Night Naperville
Friday Morning Suburban West
Friday Evening Suburban West
Friday Night Live
Rise & Shine (St. Pauls)
Sunday Morning Suburban West Meeting
Sunday Night Women’s Meeting (WOMEN ONLY)
Sunday Night Oak Park (Newcomer Focus)
Sunday Night Andersonville Meeting
Evanston Sunday Night Group
Women Stepping Into Serenity
Please join us in developing an inclusive SLAA community that represents the entire Chicago/Milwaukee area.
The intergroup would like to remind everyone that it relies on monetary donations from groups to fund its service projects. If you are an intergroup representative, please ask your home group to consider making a monthly donation to the intergroup. When sending donations via Venmo, please write “group donation” in the comments section and specify which group the donation is coming from.
Contribute to GREAT FACT
GREAT FACT—what you are reading at this very minute—is the newsletter for the Greater Chicago–Milwaukee Intergroup.
We're prepping for publication for the next few months and looking for the following submissions for future issues as it pertains to your experience, strength and hope:
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Essays
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Fiction
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Poetry
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Artwork
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Photography
Upcoming Theme:
May: We Could Look the World in the Eye. In the 5th step we share with another the exact nature of our wrongs. How has being able to share honestly about your sex and love addiction helped you to move away from shame and closer to your higher power?
Deadline for submissions is May 18th.
To submit, please send an email to mailroom@slaachicago.org with the subject line "Newsletter Submission." Please feel free to send us something outside of the themes above, and we’ll slot it in when appropriate. Thanks!
Greater Chicago/Milwaukee SLAA Intergroup
Meeting Minutes- Saturday, March 16, 2023
8:00AM - 9:15 AM
In Person and Zoom (Hybrid): NTAC 3326 N. Ashland
Name, Home Group, Intergroup Position
Chris, RFG, Facilitation Chair
Caitlyn, RFG, Inreach Chair, ABM Delegate, IG Rep RFG
Abby, RFG/Tuesday Keep Coming Back, Website Facilitation Co-Chair, Summer Retreat Co-Chair
Hannah, RFG, Fiduciary Chair
Ryan, Tuesday Night Priceless Gift of Sobriety, Newsletter Co-Editor
Burke, 12x12 Living in the Solution, Events Co-Chair
Nathan, Tuesday Keep Coming Back, IG Rep
Anthony, Tuesday Keep Coming Back, ABM Delegate, Inreach Vice-Chair
Christian, 12x12 Living in the Solution, IG Rep
Andrew, 12x12 Living in the Solution, Events Co-Chair
Zane, RFG, Website Facilitation Co-Chair
Trevor, RFG, Summer Retreat Co-Chair
Papa, RFG, Vice-Fiduciary Chair
READINGS & INTRODUCTIONS (12 Minutes)
● Prayer for a Trusted Servant
● Traditions
● Introductions (name, group affiliation and position)
● Greater Chicago/Milwaukee SLAA IG Statement of Purpose
● Review Agenda
● Concept 4 Anthony April Concept 5 Needed (chris.trudgingtheroad@gmail.com)
Facilitation (30 Minutes.)
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General Report: Chris
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Approve Minutes: February Minutes need to be recreated, Anthony to work with Caitlyn to send out via email
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Website Facilitation: Zane, Abby
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Web Facilitation
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Drop Down Menu Project Zane to work with Abby on what’s been done so far on the project, Abby to present a draft of an idea at the next meeting; Trevor offered brother’s help if needed.
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Elections:
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Renewing Service positions for second year: Names in bold were voted in for another year of service
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Facilitation
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Chair: Chris S
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Vice Chair: Caitlyn K
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Outreach
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Chair: Ian W
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Vice Chair: Jeremy W
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Inreach
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Chair: Caitlyn K
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Vice Chair: Anthony
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Fiduciary
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Chair: Zane
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Vice Chair: Still needed, Hannah to serve on fiduciary committee, maybe Nathan for Vice Chair
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New Service Position nominations:
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Newsletter Editor: Ryan W
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Second person is needed - Caitlyn and Chris to work on names
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Events Coordinators: Burke & Andrew C
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Second person is needed - Caitlyn and Chris to work on names
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Website Facilication:
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Chair: Abby
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Vice Chair: Second person is needed - Caitlyn and Chris to work on names
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Review Service Position Guides for each position
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Special Projects:
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New permanent page for SLAA Summer Retreat
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Fiduciary (10 Minutes)
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General Treasurer Report: Hannah Chair/Treasurer, Papa vice chair
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February Report Approval Approved
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Website payment and card transfer report - Needs to be done as soon as possible, will do after the meeting. Square Space also needs to be looked at as well.
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Planning to transfer to new Fiduciary chair
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Report Financials: General
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Q and A
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OutReach (5 Minutes)
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General Report: Ian W
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Inreach/Outreach teamup - outreach to far suburban meetings
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Removed past outreach chair from google voice. confirm?
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SLAA Speakers for Suncloud - direct asks
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Ongoing issues with meeting’s zoom links? Intergroup zoom link?
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Q and A
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A request was made for outreach to update the speaker list and hold a training for all members lead by Anthony and Hannah on how to speak to treatment centers.
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Inreach General Report (10 Minutes)
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General Report: Caitlyn K
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Newsletter Report (Production Editor Ryan W)
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April Theme: Fact Finding & Fact Facing - Due April 15th
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Discussed creating a QR code that could be passed around at meetings informing people of the newsletter and to sign up or contribute, as well as having IG Reps making announcements about the newsletter.
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Update on Group Reps including suburban/oak park groups
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Summer Retreat 2024
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Theme: A daily Reprieve
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Working on pulling together their committee
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Proposed price of $330 - Caitlyn and Chris to review 2 year projections and to work with Zane, Abby, and Trevor before confirming the price
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Retreat chairs to work on an email to group informing them of registration being open
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Q and A
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Event Coordinator: Burke and Andrew c
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Event/s Proposed - Working on events likely in May, either a bowling event where it would be $13-$15/person, or an open picnic in Humboldt Park, more details to come
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Upcoming Events (In the works)
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Q and A
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Sponsorship workshop (tabled)
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Annual Business Meeting Delegates (10 min)
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ABM Delegates: Anthony and Caitlyn, 2024 ABM Delegates
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SLAA Life Saver Program
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Additional Delegate Search. Testing of Dekoven for 2025 ABM Bid/2024 ABM meeting.
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Online ABM this year. Looking for 5 people to serve as delegates this year and trying to stay at DeKoven during the event so we can test the capabilities.
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Bid for Chicago 2025: cost effective plan and plenty of service needed.
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Basic Test - No markups are being provided right now, will need to review line by line so we can respond.
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Our IFG from last year is the first item on the agenda this year, delegates will be working on a direct request to delegates.
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New Business (10 min.) As Possible
● Intergroup Representatives Feedback
SUGGESTED ANNOUNCEMENTS FOR MEETING REPS:
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Submissions to newsletter - April theme: Fact Finding and Fact Facing
○ Deadline for Submissions: April 15th
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Subscribe to the newsletter on the slaachicago website
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Encourage donations to IG via Venmo (@Augustine-Fellowship)
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Please submit Meeting Updates via the Meeting Update Function on the Website (reopening, etc.)
Proposed Next Meeting: April 20, 2024.
8:00am – 9:15 am
Hybrid both In-Person (preferred) and OnLine (Zoom ID Above)
3326 N Ashland Ave.
Visit us at www.slaachicago.org
Greater Chicago Milwaukee
S.L.A.A. Intergroup Fiduciary Report
3/16-4/17
Previous Month's Balance: $11,770.00
Expenses: -$251.72
Income (Donations): $777.60
Income (Events): $299
Current Balance: $12,594.88
Prudent Reserve: -$8,477.67
Working Balance: $4,117.21
* Expenses include:
- $17.43 Zoom
- $35.00 NTAC Rental
- $183.12 for Squarespace Cost
- $16.17 in event reimbursements
* Income includes:
Total Donations: $777.60
Groups: $687.60
Individuals: $22.00
Venmo Cashout from March: $68
Retreat Payments: $299.00
Thank you to the groups (and individuals) who sent in 7th tradition contributions:
Tuesday Keep Coming Back Group - $15
Thursday The Path is Wide Enough - $2
12&12 Living in the Solution - $585.60
From Anorexia —> Healthy Relationships - $25
Loop Coop Meeting - $60
Please continue to encourage 7th tradition contributions from your groups, and remember to indicate your group's name and "Group Donation" in the comments section on Venmo.
The full treasury report is available through your Group Intergroup Representative or by request to: mailroom@slaachicago.org
SLAA Online Text-Only Chat
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Thank you for reading!
Coming in May: We Could Look the World in the Eye. In the 5th step we share with another the exact nature of our wrongs. How has being able to share honestly about your sex and love addiction helped you to move away from shame and closer to your higher power?
Deadline for submissions is May 18th.
We invite you to share your experience, strength, and hope.
To submit, please send an email to mailroom@slaachicago.org
with the subject line "Newsletter Submission"