August 2024 Intergroup News
“Tact is the intelligence of the heart”
-Anonymous
Making direct amends involves much more than a simple “I’m sorry”. Indeed, many of us have received an apology from someone who believed that just saying the words would erase a past full of hurt. Rather than peace, however, we have been left with a nagging feeling of incompleteness.
A real amends is the right one for the relationship. Through the willingness we show in making a list of whom we have harmed, we come to know what the right amend is. If we write a letter or apologize, our personal involvement makes the amend genuine and sincere. We can also choose not to contact the other person, but to make a sincere silent apology and turn it over to our Higher Power. If it’s an old lover to whom we’re making amends, we must consider the person’s present life and whether there’s a spouse involved.
In all cases, the best amends is to change our life so that today’s actions will not cause harm and have to be added to our list of future amends.
I can feel good knowing that every day I am in recovery is a gentle amends for the past.
-From ‘Answers in the Heart: Daily Meditations for Men and Women Recovering from Sex Addiction’
Announcements
Fall Gathering 2024
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Join us in person - for $25 pre-registration or $35 at the door. Space is limited, so we encourage you to register early! Registration closes October 20th.
Register here: https://forms.gle/k7ixwP9Wy3on6vLH8
Please reach out to slaafallgathering@gmail.com with any questions. We can’t wait to see you there!
Your Fall Gathering Co-Chairs,
Jeremy W. and Chris V.
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Registration for Summer Retreat 2025 is Already Open!!!
Registration Link is Below:
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdMM0f_3Bur5Aau2sZDkUcdPLmPCnHYhU0RTxliT3D7Q8Uhcw/viewform
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September Intergroup Meeting Back to Normal Date on 3rd Saturday of the Month
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The next intergroup meeting will be held on Saturday, September 21st from 8:00am-9:15am. In Person and Zoom (Hybrid).
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Location: 3326 N. Ashland, Chicago IL 60657
There is parking at the Target on the Northwest corner of School and Ashland. You must park in an upper level of the garage and not on the street-level parking in order to avoid the risk of a ticket.
Opportunity for Service:
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A Chicagoland area treatment center is looking for SLAA speakers to share their experience, strength and hope in SLAA recovery at their Northbrook facility. This treatment center also has opportunities for SLAA members to speak virtually. Because it’s a professional facility, speakers will be interviewed by the SLAA Outreach Chair about their sobriety and experience in SLAA. To inquire, contact mailroom@slaachicago.org
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Greater Chicago/Milwaukee SLAA Intergroup Representation
The Greater Chicago/Milwaukee SLAA Intergroup is grateful to have representatives from the following meetings :
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12x12 Living in the Solution
Friday/ Sunday Beverly
Priceless Gift of Sobriety Meeting
Ravenswood Fellowship Group
Tuesday Keep Coming Back Group
Thursday Keep Coming Group
Friday Night “Into Action”
Saturday Morning Oak Park
The Intergroup is still seeking representatives from the following meetings:
Solution in the Suburbs
Monday Night Naperville
Tuesday Morning Suburban West
SLAA From Anorexia to Healthy Relationships
Wednesday Morning Suburban West
Milwaukee Wednesday Evening Meeting
Reba Place Church
Thursday Night Naperville
Friday Morning Suburban West
Friday Evening Suburban West
Friday Night Live
Rise & Shine (St. Pauls)
Sunday Morning Suburban West Meeting
Sunday Night Women’s Meeting (WOMEN ONLY)
Sunday Night Oak Park (Newcomer Focus)
Sunday Night Andersonville Meeting
Evanston Sunday Night Group
Women Stepping Into Serenity
Please join us in developing an inclusive SLAA community that represents the entire Chicago/Milwaukee area.
The intergroup would like to remind everyone that it relies on monetary donations from groups to fund its service projects. If you are an intergroup representative, please ask your home group to consider making a monthly donation to the intergroup. When sending donations via Venmo, please write “group donation” in the comments section and specify which group the donation is coming from.
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Contribute to GREAT FACT
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GREAT FACT—what you are reading at this very minute—is the newsletter for the Greater Chicago–Milwaukee Intergroup.
We're prepping for publication for the next few months and looking for the following submissions for future issues as it pertains to your experience, strength and hope:
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Essays
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Fiction
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Poetry
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Artwork
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Photography
​Upcoming Theme:
September: “Faith Without Works is Dead”. Describe a difficult amends you made in step 9. How did you build the humility and the courage to make this amends, and what benefits did you experience from going through with it?
Deadline for submissions is September 21st.
To submit, please send an email to mailroom@slaachicago.org with the subject line "Newsletter Submission." Please feel free to send us something outside of the themes above, and we’ll slot it in when appropriate. Thanks!
July Intergroup Minutes
GREATER CHICAGO/MILWAUKEE SLAA INTERGROUP
Agenda for July 20, 2024 8:00 AM – 9:15 AM
Name, Home Group, Intergroup Position
Cristian, 12x12 Living in the Solution, IG Rep, ABM Delegate
Caitlyn, RFG, Inreach Chair, ABM Delegate
Hannah K, RFG, Fiduciary Committee
Chris,RFG, Facilitation Chair
Abby, RFG, Tuesday Keep Coming Back, Summer Retreat Co-chair, Website facilitator, ABM Delegate
Ian, RFG, Tuesday Keep Coming Back, Outreach Chair
Anthony, Tuesday Keep Coming Back, ABM Delegate, Inreach Vice-Chair
Burke, 12x12 Living in the Solution, Events Co-Chair
Jeremy, RFG, Fall Gathering Co-Chair
Chris V, Sunday Night Women’s Meeting SLAA Member
Ryan, Tuesday Night Priceless Gift of Sobriety, Newsletter Editor
Zane, RFG, Fiduciary Chair
Trevor, RFG, Summer Retreat Co-chair
Andrew, 12x12 Living in the Solution, Events Co-chair
Evan, 12x12 Living in the Solution, SLAA Member
READINGS & INTRODUCTIONS (10 Minutes)
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Prayer for a Trusted Servant
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Traditions
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Introductions (name, group affiliation and position)
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Greater Chicago/Milwaukee SLAA IG Statement of Purpose
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Review Agenda
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Concept 8 - Hannah K - August Meeting Concept 9 Zane
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Facilitation (5 Minutes.)
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General Report: Chris
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Approve Minutes: May Minutes are approved
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Website Facilitation: Abby
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Web Facilitation:
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Still looking for second website facilitator
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Ask about website being secure - Zane and Abby to look into it, may b e something with squarespace
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Add Chris V to email distribution
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Special Projects:
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Drop Down Menu Project Will work with Zane
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Google Drive Access and Privacy- Chris Registration information, current policy is to delete after the event, suggestion is to not have these forms on the IG drive to limit the number of people who have access to the information. If keeping it off the drive ensures no one ever sees it, that’s better.
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Chris to remove personal data from the google drive for now and will draft a new policy for the group.
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Fiduciary (5 Minutes)
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General Treasurer Report: Zane - Can we add the estimated balance to DeKoven under the working balance, should be about $5k, so $3k working balance.
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July minutes are approved. Zane to send out an updated June report.
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Planning to transfer to new Fiduciary chair
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Report Financials: General
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Q and A
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Outreach (5 Minutes)
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General Report: Ian W - Most questions this month have been about the retreat. There was someone who was having trouble mailing in a check, PO box is correct on the website. Ian to let members know the check has been received.
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Inreach/Outreach team up - outreach to far suburban meetings
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SLAA Speakers for Treatment Centers - direct asks Ian has a list now.
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Caitlyn to send notes from training a few years ago, questions that were asked during the visit.
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Q and A
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Spanish Speaking Assistance Cristian is available if there are any requests; a new meeting in the works, Cristian will share details when it is starting.
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Inreach General Report (25 Minutes)
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General Report: Caitlyn K
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Newsletter Report (Production Editor Ryan W) August Theme “Our side of the Street - Step 8” Due August 24th
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Summer Retreat 2024
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Registration and payment report - 39 confirmed registrants, 40 is the capacity before doubling up, decided not to say only 1 spot is not available. There may be a couple people who drop out. 17 people who still owe money, 12 have not paid. Payment deadline is 7/25. 4 people who have requested scholarships and money to pay for that. Follow up for fiduciary to see what has been actually paid.
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Speakers and service - 1 confirmed speaker, handful of other service positions confirmed. Working through the rest of the speaker lineup. Looking to confirm speakers this week.
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Request for Saturday morning 12x12 $330
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Q and A
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Event Coordinator: Burke and Andrew C
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Movie Night in Oak Park Saturday August 24, Oak Park Grace Episcopal Church - Gratitude Revealed. Burkey is still working out the budget with Larry. 2-4:30pm
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Also looking at a pre-holiday gathering in early December
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Q and A
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Fall Gathering
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Meet and Q&A with proposed co-chair - Chris V
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Will vote on Chris V as co-chair in next month’s Intergroup meeting
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Discussion on outside speakers - cooperation vs affiliation; keep member SLAA speakers focused on SLAA, focused on people in recovery
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Inreach to our zoom meetings and previously in person meetings - gathering contact information
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Annual Business Meeting Delegates (25 min)
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ABM Delegates: Anthony and Caitlyn, 2024 ABM Delegates
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Delegate Registration Update IFD on editing of the basic text, ARS decided to change the motion on the basic text to 2 IFD’s. Thank you to everyone who participated in the reviews of the edits. We will listen to what the delegates tell us on the IFDs.
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ABM 2025/2026 bid discussion
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FWS money requirements and other difficulties - update on potential bid.
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Contributions to FWS are down, discussion about the cost for in person ABMs; we will hold until we get confirmation hybrid is approved
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New Business (5 min.) As Possible
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Intergroup Representatives Feedback
SUGGESTED ANNOUNCEMENTS FOR MEETING REPS:
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Submissions to newsletter - August Theme “Our side of the Street - Step 8” Due August 24th
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SLAA Summer Retreat August 15-18
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Subscribe to the newsletter on the slaachicago website
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Encourage donations to IG via Venmo (@Augustine-Fellowship)
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Please submit Meeting Updates via the Meeting Update Function on the Website (reopening, etc.)
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Ask Abby to add 4th week on the meeting list
Proposed Next Meeting: August 24, 2024 FOURTH WEEK OF THE MONTH. 8:00am – 9:15 am
Hybrid both In-Person (preferred) and OnLine (Zoom ID Above)
3326 N Ashland Ave.
Visit us at www.slaachicago.org
Higher Power,
We ask your guidance in carrying out this work in service to the Fellowship. Relieve us of the burdens of our egos and perfectionism.
Grant us the grace of humility.
Remind us to place principles before personalities.
Help us to focus only on the greater good of the group.
Let us know that we are responsible only for doing the leg work, not the outcome. Give us the faith to trust in You and the Group Conscience.
And grant us the serenity to accept the things we can not change the courage to change the things we can and the wisdom to know the difference.
Fiduciary Report
Overall Report
Reporting Range: 7/18-8/23
Previous Month's Balance: $16,548.13
Expenses: -$2,875.89
Income (Donations): $95.00
Income (Events): $3,892.00
Current Balance: $17,659.24
Prudent Reserve: $14920.16
Working Balance: $2739.08
**For a full breakdown of the Prudent Reserve, see below:
Prudent Reserve (as of 8/23/24):
Rent (1 year): $420.00
P.O. Box (1 year): $222.00
Website Costs (1 year): $180.00
Committee Costs Fac., Inreach, Outreach, Fid:$250.00
Cost 3 ABM Delegates yearly: $2,000 per delegate: $6,000.00
Outstanding 2024 Retreat Checks: $4,269.00
2025 Retreat - First Check: $3,000.00
2025 Summer Retreat Rollover (2025 retreat deposit already paid): $579.16
Total Reserve: $14,920.16
* Expenses include:
Retreat 2024 (expenses during reporting period)
Supplies (Snacks): $240.91
Thursday Dinner (Qdoba): $495.60
ABM Expense Registration/Housing: $2,139.38
* Income includes:
Donations:
Ravenswood Fellowship Group: $37.00
Tuesday Priceless Gift of Sobriety: $16.00
Sunday Night 5:30 Ebenezer - State of Grace: $20.00
Individual Donations: $22.00
2024 Retreat
Retreat Registrant Payments: $3,398.00
Retreat Contributions (Group): $444.00
2024 Fall Gathering
Ticket Purchases: $50.00
Thank you very much to all groups and individuals who contributed to the Intergroup, including the following:: Ravenswood Fellowship Group, Tuesday Priceless Gift, Sunday Night State of Grace, Oak Park Saturday AM, Tuesday KCB, Saturday 12x12.
Please continue to encourage 7th tradition contributions from your groups, and remember to indicate your group's name and "Group Donation" in the comments section on Venmo.
Any questions or points to consider are always welcome!
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SLAA Online Text-Only Chat
Those who need an additional resource in their SLAA recovery are invited to SLAA Online text-only chat recovery fellowship. Find more information by visiting the SLAA website, slaaonline.org, or by emailing slaaonline@yahoo.com.
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Thank you for reading!
Coming in September:
“Faith Without Works is Dead”. Describe a difficult amends you made in step 9. How did you build the humility and the courage to make this amends, and what benefits did you experience from going through with it?
Deadline for submissions is September 21st.
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We invite you to share your experience, strength, and hope.
To submit, please send an email to mailroom@slaachicago.org
with the subject line "Newsletter Submission"
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